The healthcare industry is full of serious people. They should be serious, shouldn’t they? After all, health care is serious business. Life is at stake and life is sacred. But if you had to choose between two different kinds of providers, which one would you prefer: the serious one or the responsible one? The two kinds aren’t necessarily the same. Being serious is an emotion. Responsibility is a state of awareness. That difference could seriously influence the quality of your treatment.
THE COST OF BEING SERIOUS
Most of the people in health care are good, competent and emotionally secure human beings. Unfortunately, there are also a lot of angry people in the same industry. I know that I don’t want an angry surgeon or ticked off nurse giving me a medication. Do you? Could anger stem from being serious? I believe that it could.
Our culture teaches us to be serious. There’s nothing wrong with being serious per se. But it’s worth a peek at what grows beneath the word. The root word of serious is seryows, which sounds a bit like sorrows. Ours is a serious world. It’s also sorrowful. Perhaps there’s a connection. If language influences our perceptions and behaviors, then we need to re-think what we teach our children. Otherwise, they will grow up to confuse seriousness with responsibility. They will be depressed. Look around you if you think I’m exaggerating.
THE BENEFITS OF BEING RESPONSIBLE
Fortunately, our culture teaches us to be responsible too. Resonsible is rooted in respuns, or response. Responsibility by definition requires action, a reply. Being responsible, however, is not the same as being serious and yet our culture often equates and confuses the two words. That’s an error that might be costing us lives.
I understand the need for bearing a sacred sense of emotion when providing care to patients. I’m not arguing against the sacred. I am arguing for stripping away the assumptions we make which prevent us from being our most responsible. Experienced professionals have smashed medical equipment against walls because they were serious about saving their patients’ lives. That’s pretty serious. It’s not responsible, especially when the equipment is life-saving.
Many health care facilities still tolerate this madness. Why? I think it’s because some of the people who run those organizations are serious about healthcare and they’re afraid that by condemning the serious behavior they are violating the sacredness of life. Health care is an ancient business. It’s an historical confluence of religion, warfare, science, art, culture and just about everything else that makes a civilization. So it’s not much of a wonder why the healthcare industry is so serious about being serious. The industry can do better. It’s your health, so it’s your responsibility too.
If you want to find out for yourself, offer to volunteer at your local hospital. See if there’s anything you can do to lighten things up.
LESS SERIOUS. MORE RESPONSIBILITY.
I think it’s time we publicly recognize the difference between being serious and being responsible. The two aren’t necessarily mutually exclusive; but the semantic relationship might just be too close for us to dismiss.
I know I want to be responsible. If that means I have to be less serious, so be it. Nursing might be a lot more fun. It should be. After all, life is a stake and life should be fun. Fun is a responsiblity of the living. Seriousness is for the dead. It’s our responsibility to save our sorrows for the dead. That’s how we rescue them.
If being serious leads to anger and anger leads to error, then we need to be less serious and more responsible. Life is at stake and life is sacred. Seriously.
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